Truths that Scare Husbands

It is not really difficult to spot a cheating wife, the problem is acceptance. Husband's machismo attitude makes it arduous for them to accept or even believe that they are being cheated. Despite the strong indications that something is wrong with their marriage, men will almost always pretend everything is alright, just to keep their ego.

For those who are not not afraid of the truth, check these signs:

Eyes are the windows to our souls, so goes the old cliche and this holds true in spotting cheaters and liars. Generally, women are not good liars, they always get caught through their eyes. A wife who commits adultery would almost always try to avoid direct eye contact with her husband.

In the course of the forbidden affair, the wife suddenly becomes secretive. She would refuse to give details of her whereabouts to the husband, when she usually does. When the wife does something sneaky behind her hubby's back, she will talk less, for fear her tongue may slip and unconsciously reveal her secret affair.

Unsuspecting husbands may hardly notice his wife's affair merely by the number of hours she is out of the house. Women often are not caught red-handed because they have all the reasons to stay out of the house - bring kids to school, shop, meet friends and do other family errands her working husband cannot attend to. If she is a career woman, she can make excuses of working late hours on overtime, like cheating husbands tell their wives.

While it's true that women stay on the phone most of the time, a husband can detect that his wife is playing good music with another man when she would want more privacy while on the phone or have an increase in wrong numbers when she answers.

If the husband notices that his wife cleans her car more often than usual, when there are cigarette ashes or butts in the ashtray or even miles do not coordinate with a typically daily travel, it could be a sign that there is some foul play going on.

And of course, when a wife is playing around, her behavior in the bedroom abruptly changes. She suddenly becomes uninterested to have sex with her husband or when intimacy does occur, she may be more experimental or seem completely distracted.

The above signs are not "full proof" guarantees of a cheating wife, the husband must be sensitive enough to understand his wife's behaviors. Who knows the wife intentionally "commits" these indicators as a way of getting back at her cheating husband.