It is really frustrating to receive the answer "I AM BUSY", when you needed him at that very moment. He may say "sorry" after but the point is, he was too busy for you when you needed him most.
So many relationships have gone to waste because of this simple line. Sounds unbelievable, but this is reality. In any relationship, time is of great essence. Lest we forget, we must be reminded that there are 24 hours or 1,440 minutes in a day so how can you not spare even just a minute to say hello or to ask your partner how she is?
In these days of technology, there are so many channels on how we can make our partners feel our presence - and all it would take you is a minute and a few strokes of the finger.
There is very little effort, but we often forget it either intentionally or accidentally.
This brings to mind an article I read a few days ago saying, that one of the most important keys to having a mature, loving relationship is to recognize the importance of practicing the art of loving every day. If you are not prepared to do this daily work, you will never experience mature love.
Relationships either rise or fall-- they do not stand still. If you are not putting in the effort, you are neglecting your partner and contributing to the eventual demise of the relationship. Practicing the art of loving, each day, insures that your relationship will rise.
Loving relationships are built. They do not happen by chance. It's the little things that you do (taking a few seconds or a few minutes each day) that will make the difference in your relationship.
It's taking the time to share a moment with one another before you go to work, instead of rushing out of the house. It's a phone call at some point during the day to talk to one another - even if you are on different parts of the globe!
So next time, before you say "I AM BUSY" to your partner or friend, think again- you might send the signal that the end is near!
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